* Fix sqite locking bugs present on sytest
Comments do the explaining.
* Fix deadlock in sqlite mode
Caused by starting a writer whilst within a writer
* Only complain about invalid state deltas for non-overwrite events
* Do not re-process outlier unnecessarily
* Updated TransactionWriters, moved locks in roomserver, various other tweaks
* Fix redaction deadlocks
* Fix lint issue
* Rename SQLiteTransactionWriter to ExclusiveTransactionWriter
* Fix us not sending transactions through in latest events updater